Millionaire Dating Tips

Book overview

You get that he's just not that into you, but why?

What "really" happened when that cute guy never called you back after your date? Why didn't that intriguing man you flirted with online or at the party ask you out? It's an annoying mystery. One minute there was a potential romance happening, and the next? He vanished, inexplicably. If you knew why men reacted in these ways, you could do something about it next time when the right guy comes along.

So Rachel Greenwald did what you're too embarrassed to do yourself. As a renowned dating coach with a Harvard MBA, she applied business savvy to the dating world by conducting in-depth "Exit Interviews" with 1,000 single men, asking them why they hadn't called back after a date or online flirtation. By refusing to accept glib responses such as "There was just no chemistry," she extracted unabashedly honest and raw answers. It turns out that men leave women hanging for clear, consistent reasons. The Top Ten Date-Breakers-revealed here in Greenwald's unique research-are the result of signals that women of all ages send unknowingly, but are easily fixed. Citing true anecdotes and case studies, this book examines the most frequent date-breakers that men confessed, and offers practical advice on how you can avoid them.

Greenwald's goal "isn't" for you to pretend to be someone you're not, but rather to keep the ball in your court. By using her research results as a guide to tweak your comments and gestures, you'll have more men asking to see you again. Then you can accept or decline their invitations: "you're" doing the selecting-not them.

In today's increasingly complex dating world, both online and offline, learning how to maximize your dates is essential. With a fresh and entertaining behind-the-scenes vantage point, "Why He Didn't Call You Back" offers simple solutions that empower women to choose the men they really want to date.

 

A brooklyn, NY man has sued match.com for $5 million, accusing the most popular online dating website of fraud for posting profiles of eligible singles who can't be reached at all.

According to Sean McGinn, who is 37, he hated meeting women in bars, although it may be a nice choice for some guys to meet new singles. Online dating seemed the right and nice option for him. So he carefully constructed his profile, worked hard to include all his great characters in the profile. Let's see: "Last Reads" .... Eat, Pray, Love, I Hope They Serve Beer in Hell, Love in the Time of Cholera. "Likes" ... Leather jackets, the movie Cocktail, Caribbean steel-drum music, oh! And Lisa Kudrow in The Comeback! "Smoking?" ... No way! "Interests" .... NO DRAMA.

Things were not going well for him. All the women he tried to contact got back to him. So he made some adjustment and improved his profile: "Interests" ... Wine tasting! "Pets I Like" ... Lions! Ha ha! "Body Type" ... Average Cuddly, but Toned! "Turn Offs" ... Skinny dipping. "Turn Ons" ... Thunderstorms. Again, he got no response after a long long waiting. Finally, he got the result:  None of the women he was contacting were real. And his emails might not be read at all! He had been sending hundreds of carefully crafted, artfully capitalized messages into space. He was humiliated and fooled by the dating site at the very beginning. And he paid for nothing. Then Sean McGinn got mad. Really mad. And called his lawyer.

This dating story turns out to be a mess. It's not proper to say someone is right, while another one is wrong. But we should keep an deep eye on the problems. Match.com is one of the largest international dating site. But is it the best dating site for everybody? On match.com, unsubscribers (free members) can do nothing. They can't send emails, and they can't even read emails from other members. In their own words: "if you want to email, if you want to read email, you must subscribe. If you don't subscribe, you can do nothing". When you send an email to another member, you don't know whether your email will be read. If you want to know that, you need to subscribe more.

Are all the dating services working this way? Of course not. If you don't like the 100% free dating sites just because of their profiles with hookers and frauds, you are still able to find a number of dating sites which don't restrict messages. MillionaireCupid.com is one of them. Members can join them for free. But only paying members can initiate email messages. Free members, on this site, can view and reply to emails without subscribe. Compared with the paying to read emails on match.com, it's more humanized. At least, the members you contacted has the ability to read your emails and reply to you without restriction. Sounds much better? Actually it's easy to find other sites with similar features.

As to online dating, a correct choice at the very beginning is very important. There is no need to trust the words which dating site is the biggest or the largest... just like you don't need to marry the more beautiful or the most handsome, you just need the dating site that works for you. Online daters, make your choice wise!

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The Cupid Online Dating has an African American Dating service that is so well liked the recommended site have experianced massive growth and memberships. It kind of feels like everywhere we surf on the internet, various pop-up ads advertising free online classifieds flood our screens it's the latest Net gold rush. With our African American dating service you wont need to deal with this. What they get with the African American Dating Service is a place online where they can post their profile to let folks contact them. This African American Dating service has a great reputation as being one of the finest black dating sites along with ease of use with real singles looking to find their match.

If it is poorly designed with unappealing graphics or jagged fonts and misaligned sections, this indicates a lack of awareness of detail in the construction and layout of the site, and could mean that the site's management is in a corresponding state of chaos and disarray.

It's possible the site may be simply hacked, and your private info, including your photograph and contact info, are not secure. Our African American Dating service site was professionally made and you wont need to deal with these perils. try and have a glance at some of the sample profiles on the site before enrolling. Try and create if a site has a privacy link.

With our African American Dating service your information will never be sold or shared with any one and you won't be snowed under with spam emails and junk mail. Check if the dating site has a links page. Click some to ascertain which other sites they are related to, and be careful if they're linked to sex sites and spam sites.

To explain, it is easy and convenient to find single males and women on the Internet. From the comfort of your PC, you can view and interact with million of single males and around you. Single ladies on the lookout for single men online at these free dating agencies is common these days. There are thousands of web relations generated from African American Dating services.

Some African American Dating services claim that they' been in the business for years but are truly brand spanking new. A site with millions or just thousands of members will always have a large number of folks online at any given time.

 

The trend of many urban female Chinese has within the past several years manifested a preference to wait it out for "Mr. Right" to arrive and not subscribe to the age honored tradition of early marriage and children in order to meet parental and social expectations. What are all these Chinese women doing with their time and how are they expending their feminine energy and traditional nesting instinct if not in pursuit of Chinese men? At least one source seems to have the answer to this social phenomenon and apparent Westernization of Chinese women. seekwealthy.com, a fast growing online resource for Western men wanting to connect with Asian women for friendship and marriage, has recently seen a significant spike in registration from ladies in major Chinese cities…Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou.

Western men have long considered Asian women ideal companions and superlative wives because of their unique appeal and traditional values. Now the sense of admiration seems to be returned as Chinese women are joining virtual communities and marriage websites in droves in their pursuit of Mr. Right in the form of a Western male.

Statistics from seekwealthy.com seem to support the fact that even though Chinese women may be prone to selectivity when choosing a mate, many seem to prefer the company of Western men as evidenced by the increasing number of Chinese women actively seeking love and romance online from the West. Embracing Western men and values has been a trend among women in China for the past decade at least. This follows a development that combines traditional Asian values with a movement towards Westernization for the 456 million Chinese women of marriage age, outnumbered by a mere 3% or just over 16 million males. According to a recent American study, 45.3 percent of Chinese women oppose giving up a career for a family life, 72 percent of female executives believe being a 'career lady' does not contradict being a 'family woman, 51 percent of female professionals believe they can balance their careers and their family lives and 88 percent of consider themselves good in handling their personal relationships

The adaptation of these Western values mixed with solid traditional beliefs creates a profound and very attractive package for a Western man seeking compatibility with an Asian woman and vice versa. In the end it could be the dawn of a brave new cross-cultural world.

OPW -- June 15 -- I asked Match.com for a statement regarding the McGinn suit where Match is accused of 'defrauding customers who paid for the dating service by failing to disclose that it lumps together current subscribers and canceled members and displays them as the same.' The CEO of Match, Greg Blatt, states...  "Match.com's continued success depends upon the success of our members in making online connections and turning them into meaningful relationships offline.  The allegation that we would deceive our subscribers by encouraging them to connect with inactive members therefore makes no sense and is contradicted by our 14-year record and the hundreds of thousands of members who find someone special on Match.com every year.  We understand that finding romance, offline or online, can at times be emotional and personal, and we wish Mr. McGinn well in his search.  But his lawsuit is without merit, and we will defend it vigorously."

The popular dating website Match.com is facing a class-action lawsuit brought by some of its members.

The members claim the service deceives them by allowing people to post profiles even though they're not paying members and can't read or respond to personal messages.

A customer from New York said that practice brought him "humiliation and disappointment," because he contacted members and assumed they weren't interested in him when they didn't respond.  In fact, the lawsuit suggests, they were never aware he contacted them in the first place.

If you are a single woman looking for a date that you have many options for being you. First you must know that in the world of online dating women have the upper hand. Many more men use the services online dating than women means that women have a much better choice.

When you start dating it is important to be realistic about what you want to leave. Many links are doomed before they even begin, because the expectations of women, and this can lead to years of failure.

As women, it is important that you do not try to rush things or you can turn off your dating partner (this advice applies to men). In the world of meetings, it is better to stay light and casual at first. Give things a few weeks and probably months before trying to get more serious with your significant other.

Looking for the right dating service online is easy. All you have to do is read some comments, and then you are away. The popular appears again and again to let you know what Web sites the most popular and successful.

Your profile is the most important part of your online dating success. You can tell immediately if someone is really interested in you, and not just your photo. There are many dating services on men who refuse to pay for a subscription, and they just send free messages to hundreds of women every day, just because they like their photo.

Sending a photo will allow you to improve your strike rate. If you have a photo on your profile, you will receive up to 20 times more messages if you do not. When you receive multiple messages, you'll have a much better choice of singles, which means you'll have more chance of achieving your perfect match.

 

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Q：I have been single for many years and never been married. I'm now in my 50s and desperately trying to find someone. I have joined an online dating service and have met some local women, but nothing has clicked.

Many women overseas, particularly from Ghana, for some reason, have approached me. Usually, these are women in their late 20s to early 30s who are looking to get into this country. Some of them seem to have been in abusive relationships. Some are ready to go to bed with me as long as I am willing to give them what they want. Are they simply using sex to get ahead?

Am I paranoid or is that the way things are today?

Suspicious of International Relations

A: I hate to break it to you, but chances are these women from Ghana are not using sex to get ahead nor are they coming from abusive relationships.

The fact is, they're probably not women at all, but part of a larger Internet scam operation that is preying on your loneliness and desperation. Why Ghana? It is one of a handful of countries from which these types of Internet scams originate.

You are being conned. Do not, I repeat, do not ever send any money to anyone who contacts you internationally by email requesting money in exchange for companionship. There are plenty of legitimate dating sites and lots of other ways to meet women. Nothing may have clicked for you but don't let your discouragement, frustration and loneliness make you an easy target for these types of scams. Hit delete and move on.

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If you have used a dating site in the past, it is likely you have come across a dating site scammer at some point. If you haven't, you are either very lucky or maybe they were not uncovered by you at the time. You may even have been conned into sending a scammer hundreds or thousands of hard earned dollars, never hearing from them again.

A dating site scammer is a person who may contact you in order to obtain money. They will use a false name, age, country of birth, occupation and most cunningly, they will have a misleading purpose for contacting you. They will appear sweet, caring and in-need of your help.

Dating sites are very prone to dating site scammers. Generally they will prey on people who are prepared to "open their heart" to the scammer, often being "sucked into" the scammers lie. The ultimate goal of their lies is to receive money from you - often in large quantities.

As the operator of the dating site Pricelesspartner.com, I have come across every story, every username, every lie that a scammer could possibly think of. I thought it would be useful to share my knowledge of dating site scammers and to write a "How To Avoid" guide to dating site scammers in the hope that it may save you both time, possibly money and give you a more enjoyable online experience on dating sites.

In no particular order, here is a list of what to look out for when dating online.

The Email Address

From my experience, the most popular email service used by dating site scammers is Yahoo! Mail. At present very few scammers use Hotmail or Gmail, although they are both not immune from being used as scamming email addresses.

The email address will often contain a username similar to their registered dating site username. See below.

The Username

The next most obvious sign of a dating site scammer will be his or her username.

Generally, their username will consist of love related or relationship related terms. Common terms include 'luv' or 'love' or 'real' in combination with a common generic name such as 'Bob' or 'Jane' or 'Jennifer' etc.

Often the username will also contain a string of numbers at the end, perhaps helping them exhaust a range of memberships or registrations with a site. For example 'Bob4real' may have '001' at the end.

Here is a tiny sample of random usernames I have rejected:

Jennifer4real

Vivian001

Bobtrueluv

Luv4real

Jennifer_brown03

Lovely2000

Honest005

God_fearing_001

plus thousands of variations of the above, and more.

The Description

The personality description used by the dating site scammer is probably the biggest giveaway and sometimes the most humorous (when you have gone through thousands of profile registrations like I have, you need to have the odd giggle here and there).

Most commonly, the dating site scammer will use the following phrases or word combinations in their personality description:

They either live in a common scamming country or region (Nigeria, Senegal, and Russia) or they will state they were originally born in the USA, London, Australia etc and are currently living in Nigeria, Senegal, and Russia etc.

They will start a sentence with "Am" eg. "Am Jennifer Smith by name…"

States they are god fearing, or have the fear of god in them.

The dating site scammer will describe themselves as "real, honest, sincere, loving, careing (often spelt like that), genuine".

They will often tell you about their tragic life story or history. Often this will include the death of both parents at an early age, they are recently widowed, they have a sick child or a child has died.

In combination with their life story, the dating site scammer may also claim to do saint-like activities such as work with disabled people and students, work for a charity such as UNICEF, or even work for the United Nations.

Alternatively, some dating site scammers (usually from Russia) are very sexual in nature and desire to be loved and cared for by you and to please your every desire, despite only having read your profile for 5 minutes.

The Photo

The photo used by a dating site scammer is often very professional - almost too professional. Photos will be very clear and appear to be a "pose" by a professional model. Alternatively, many male scammers from African countries will send a passport-like photo of themselves. It will be very grainy and somewhat aged.

Some photos may also appear to be everyday snaps, but are very tiny - almost thumbnail in appearance.

The Message

The message sent to you by a dating site scammer is almost always your first contact with them.

In most cases, the message is likely to be very self contained and not just a simple "Hi, want to chat?". It will include many of the keywords and phrases used in their personality description (see above) and will often request you contact them directly via their email address or to add them directly to MSN or your computer's Instant Messenger.

A good example of a typical message would be similar to the following:

Hello, am Jennifer Smith by name, am 25 years old,from USA but currently living in Lagos,Nigeria I got my first Degree from Greemwich university, London, and am currently working for Unicef. am real, loving, faithful careing lady who is god fearing and would like to talk to you more. Please contact me on emailaddress@email or add my name to your MSN. Love Jennifer xxoo

So, what do I do if I think I have found a scammer?

If you believe the person contacting you fits the descriptions listed above, do the following three things:

Report the scammer to the dating site operator. On MillionaireCupid.com, you can do this by clicking the 'report abuse' button on the profile, or simply the contact link on the top navigation bar. They will investigate them.

If the scammer has listed their email address in their message to you, contact the scammer's email provider. In many cases this will be a free email service such as Yahoo! Mail or Hotmail. If possible, send them a copy of the message sent to you by the scammer, including the scammers email address.

Ignore them. After completing the above steps, delete their message to you immediately. You should not continue corresponding with them and under no circumstances give them any personal information such as your email address or phone number.

You may have seen her handywork on Bravo's "The Millionaire Matchmaker," but don't let the Beverly Hills backdrop fool you — Patti Stanger was born and raised in New Jersey, moved to New York as a teenager and knows the NYC dating scene like "the back of my hand." Here's what we learned.

What qualities and traits are men and women really looking for?
It starts with the physical because obviously we are wired that way. Men are very visually driven and then they go under the hood of the car. Women are more auditory and like to hear what people have to say to see if there is a tone of sincerity in their voice, and judge whether the person would be a good provider, a good candidate for marriage.

What attributes or similarities make for a winning match?
[I start] with the physical, because the man has to be sexually attracted. Then I look at morals, values, spirituality, religious beliefs, five year plans … common interests, temperament and energy. A lot of times it's psychic what I do, I don't always know what I'm going to do until I meet the person. [It's a] God-given sixth sense for matchmaking that I couldn't even teach somebody. I have a feeling and I'm never really wrong — I want to be wrong sometimes, but I'm not. There are plenty of times I'm like, "That bastard doesn't deserve that girl!"

What would you tell New York women who are trying to meet their match?
People need to be happy. I tell [the women] to start exercising — not to lose weight, because I believe that beauty comes in all shapes and sizes — but when you're exercising, your endorphins increase and give you a feeling of common wellness. It's the happy factor, it's the hormone in your body that says, "Well, if I find a guy, OK, but if I don't, that's OK, too." What happens is you're no longer in heat, and that is magnetic to the opposite sex. Men want to know that girl.

And to the men?
I am finding out that men in America … no longer hunt and fish. They sit in the corner drinking, they look at the girl and they expect the girl to go over to them. They don't ask girls for their number or buy them drinks. If a girl's drink is un-refreshed and you like her, and within the first 15 minutes of introducing yourself you don't buy her a drink, you're a cheap loser.

What do you think of online dating?
The online experience has its positives and negatives. The positive is that now you have a choice to get out there and meet people that you never would have met before. [But] people are lying about their height, weight, age … about being married. You can get your heart broken. And, it's so "Lazy Larry." You don't have to go to the bar anymore, you don't have to put on a pair of heels anymore. You can go shopping at night online. People think they are dating when they are just talking to each other on the phone or the computer. You are not dating until you meet … in person, have chemistry and decide to go out again. That is a date, Mister. Texting is not a date, e-mailing is not a date.

What are some big mistakes people make on first dates or in the early stages of dating?
One big mistake most people make is that they have too much alcohol … and tend to baggage-dump. [It] really neutralizes the sex appeal on both sides. If I hear about another girl from a guy, I lose interest. Dating is supposed to be fun, flirty, exciting and interesting and not Debbie Downer stuff.

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- the final choice for those rich and wealthy singles and those who wants to date and love them

Online dating is becoming convenient, empowering, fun and interesting. In recent years, busy professionals may not have enough hours in the day to complete normal task, let alone try to find that special someone for love and relationships. Dating alone can be a difficult mission and finding that right individual who fits your unique needs is even more challenging. High caliber singles dating is on the rise and more and more single professionals are seeking online dating opportunities in order to meet that special man or woman of their dreams with a good background or successful career. Here are some of the hottest millionaire friend finder dating services online that cater to professional individuals with busy lifestyles.

 

MillionaireCupid.com is a premier service that provides successful professionals with a platform to meet quality individuals. It prides itself on upscale clients such as CEO's, doctors, lawyers, entrepreneurs, celebrities and professional athletes and has just implemented a certification service of millionaire members. Members can join them for free. The free membership includes a profile post, conducting profile searches, and send free winks / emails as well as online chat messages, etc. Millionaire, is defined on MillionaireCupid.com as any guy who makes over $150,000 a year, or someone with a net assets of $1 Million. So most members with a nice job can become a certified millionaire on this website. "This is a place to accumulate quality singles. We hope every quality single can find love through our website", says the website. With tens of new success stories every week, MillionaireCupid is proving their success with their own efforts.

 

WealthyChats.com is an online dating service for men and women looking to step up their dating experience. Even though, a majority of men on this dating website are not millionaires yet, however they have the potential to become millionaires very quickly. WealthyChats.com has an earning guideline of $100K or more. I have to say that the caliber of these men are pretty impressive and would be worth a browse. For a limited time only, membership is free which includes a profile post, profile searches and email. The key thing about WealhyChats.com is that they have a premium verification system. The WealthyChats Verification System verifies and approves age, photo, education, occupation as well as income. It helps fresh members to filter out fraud and scam.

 

Online dating is becoming more and more unique. While successful professionals and high caliber singles strive for continued and heightened success, the need for these services will continue to grow. So, what are you waiting for? Here is your invitation to visit these websites and possibly meet the love of your lifestyle.

Note: Before reading this article, the first thing you should prepare is: Click Here to Register a Dating Account, then Start a Successful Dating.

by Nataliya Piterova

Before we go into the subject of millionaire dating secrets, it's better to differentiate between just online dating, and dating for millionaires.

When I talk about dating for wealthy people I dont state that only rich singles should date each other. Its a dating for successful and self-confident personals. And money isnt the big issue in such a dating. People who register on dating sites for millionaires are very good-looking (at least they believe they are), successful, wealthy, travel a lot, have a lot of wonderful friends and family, and live a very exciting and active life.

Once you have in your mind to get into dating for successful and rich people make sure you stick to certain rules and follow them. I am going to share some secrets with you to help you make your online dating for millionaires more successful.

Probably many of us think of ourselves as being not deserving to have a better life and rich person in it. As it happens that we are not so rich, or educated, or professionally trained as others. We compare ourselves with the people who gained much more than we did. If you continue thinking that way you are not the person to achieve much, particularly in online dating for successful people. The first secret is to accept yourself the way you or else you will never see opportunity. You will not feel free to move toward it; you will feel you are not deserving. Your background, professional skills and your education dont play the greatest role though its important too. None of mentioned-above helps you once you have low self-esteem. If you accept yourself as you are and confident about your personality then you are able to enhance your professional level, obtain necessary knowledge to have a better communication with a person you date.

One more secret you are to know - you cant buy love. Rich people know it very well. When they see you easily fall in love with them they might suspect you of being insincere who is after their money. Being very pragmatic wealthy people hardly believe in love from the first glance without seeing other persons character or knowing him personally. Be aware you are not a thing to be bought when you register on millionaire dating sites. Stay in dignity and you will be treated with much respect.

In any social niche of society there are certain principles and rules to follow. It reminds if you play game you must know the rules of it or else you will loose. The next secret is that not everything about money or education level. People will take you according to your behavior. It is up to you to earn rich peoples respect or spurn them being ignorant.

One of the secrets I am going to reveal and talk about now is our looks. Dont misunderstand me our looks make first impression and its very important but it doesnt mean so much for wealthy people. So, what is more important then our looks and appearance? Its your character. It matters when you are serious about dating rich person. Be attractive in your inward first. Being an easy-going and understanding person gives you a good credit when you are on the way to marry rich person.

Online millionaire dating services can help you to cross the bridge between yourself and some wealthy people. Online millionaire dating services can help you with everything you need, starting with helping you to be positive about yourself, and to believe in yourself.

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